Monday, February 27, 2012

The Ultimate Double Standard


He can be ugly, smell bad, covered in tattoos, have one eye and he’ll still get airplay if he’s athletic; he’ll get sponsored, he’ll get paid, he’ll get watched, followed and loved. SHE had better be sexy, long hair, great physique, tan, toned, perfect make up, teeth, then be athletically talented or she’ll never get out of the amateur world. No matter how good she is, without model looks, she’s not making THE team.

When you think of the worldly equalities that have moved society forward; voting, military positions, clergy, Title IX, there is still a double standard when it comes to women’s professional sports. In a male driven audience, women’s sports will never really be taken seriously – in the same breath you’ll hear “Danica Patrick is so sexy, and sure knows how to drive.” Can she not just know how to drive? I suppose it could be argued that women find Tebow hot but we still watch football even with the not so hot guys on the team.

I’ve become more and more bothered by this double standard as I watch female athletes become sex symbols first, athletes second. If you’re a strong female athlete but are so-so or average looking then you might as well join roller derby because that’s the only league that allows a melting pot of looks, builds, etc.

It’s sad to read articles about upcoming MMA fighter Ronda Rousey and her title fight against Meisha Tate this March. “Barbie Breaks Arms” the title of the Fitness Rx Magazine article on Rousey. “With top fighters sporting pretty faces and long flowing hair – women’s MMA is gaining popularity.” REALLY can you not start out talking about her career in Judo or the Olympics, or even just her amateur record in MMA – her looks should be a hindsight. There aren’t articles that read “with his all-American boy-next door good looks, chiseled abs and Christian lifestyle, Tim Tebow is excelling at the sport of football.”

I doubt there will ever be change in this arena – sports will always be dominantly driven by men both playing and watching, paying and drooling. It certainly doesn’t help that females allow the sexy posing because it sells seats, but I’d like to hope that for the average athletic female the field would become a far more level ground, they’d be recognized for their talents as an athlete not their physical attributes. Sexy may fill the seats but it’s not sexy that wins the game, match, tournament, it’s skill, hard work, athleticism and teamwork. It’s putting in the same work as the boys, training just as hard, wanting just as much and deserving the respect for the talent, not bra size.

Friday, February 3, 2012

I'm Back



I contemplated putting a saddle photo as in I’m “back in the saddle” then I thought I’d have the saddle on donkey since I feel like a horses ass “getting back into it,” but then I decided to post a more inspiring photo!

With a regained focus, a year of life changing events and the pure fact that I'm not getting younger and this isn't getting easier...I'M BACK!

Here’s the deal, I was balls to the wall on Ideal Protein and working out – I got to a point that I’d work out twice a day and my weigh ins sucked, they’d either be 1 pound a week loss or nothing – I had caused my body to freak out and store since I was taking in only 1300 calories and burning at least 1500-2000 – the truth is, in order to lose weight and work out, you MUST eat. THEN I got laid off and couldn’t afford the program at all. Not to mention I’d broke off my engagement to my best friend. I was so emotionally not available to anyone but my son. I didn’t care about ANYTHING, I couldn’t even really put words to the feelings other than I DIDN’T CARE! It sucked.

Though I was able to work out at my gym more, I had to figure out how to eat “normal” again and sadly I got in the mindset that I’d dropped 58 pounds and was looking good, I was thinking “I’ve got this.” I was eating Nutella toast every day – sometimes twice – It’s not a secret that I LOVE NUTELLA – oh and that’s not all I was eating, I’d started eating more crap, because I was working out more it was kind of okay but really the results were just delayed. By the time I got back to Ideal Protein, I’d luckily only gained back 7 pounds (in three months) so from Feb ’11 – July ’11 I had lost 58 pounds by October ’11, I was at -51 pounds – not bad but getting back has been so super hard.

One benefit, I’m back with my best friend – my mood is so, so much better, but I really am still dealing with being told that I need to stop working out so much, down to “you can only walk around the block.” It’s not in my genes – I’m a gym rat, I’m supposed to be lifting like the boys, I’m meant to be in the gym! So I wonder now as I eat my packets of food, what else can I do – there’s got to be an option for athletes or athletically minded people on Ideal Protein!

I have found a new journaling site that I like more than Live Strong – it’s My Fitness Pal, not only can I use it on my computers but also my phone, it already has the Ideal Protein foods in its system so I don’t have to guess or hand enter the calories etc. LOVE it. Truly, journaling has been a Godsend, but I need to figure out this whole work out thing – I cannot NOT workout - it’s just not an option.

On the schedule for this year is two Warrior Dash races, at least three 5K’s and a 10K, MMA training and part of me wants to do a Sprint Triathlon but we’ll see. I’d also like to get back into CrossFit – that was super neglected after I stopped IP, also due to funds, though still expensive there are ways to get in WOD’s without having to go to a box – it’s just a lot more fun surrounded by other CFers!

We’ll all get there – just keep pressing forward people!